We were all shuffled outside to a van to wait while the house was searched. This happened in HENNEPIN COUNTY MN. I advised everyone laws are different for married and non married parents and they all said no. Two years and 5 months since my 3 boys spent the night in their beds at my house. This is disgusting! Please contact me if you are interested in moving mountains. I have a lawyer this time. Maybe because she cant have kids and is bored at home so is trying to take your child away. Except we the real victims. How do you beat allegations made an aunt whos never been in this childs life and the father is deceased and all she wants is money and revenge and she has corrupt police in her family ? Thats a great point that you raise, but I can tell that you have not done your research and I can characterize you as an attorney deeply steeped in legal opinion even without glancing at your credentials. Basically causing any type of DISCOMFORT (harass me through texts). Ive been putting up with this for over two years. Right now there a systematic machine that has entangled itself within my family and the procedure and individuals outside of my family are only causing more harm then good Why is family right now broken? Parents may subconsciously start viewing children as pieces of property." Custody hearing coming up for me next week Best of luck to both of our daughters, First to start. I find myself forwarding this article time and again in effort to make people understand what happened to me. Any updates? I had no idea what was to become of it once he had finished and left on his way. No child should ever be alienated from the mother. My husband never even got to go to court, and his alcoholic, cocaine drug addicted ex lied to the courts and since shes the mother, whatever she says is true. I have tried and tried to protect my children he hurts them and blames me he puts me down to them and tries to gift them things to say they want to live there in return and my 6 year old daughter is so stressed. Now as it stands I was told I can never have a relationship with her. Is this not abuse of its own kindperhaps of the worst kind? The DA could even tell it was a bucket of lies. How can I get a continuance without an attorney, so I dont end up without a lawyer (self representing is automatic loss)? I was just informed the day after the court date that he didnt add his father on the disclosure. brought medical records to show proof she was lying nothing was done and still Texas court favors her. I have a family member suffering because of this topic. It doesnt make sense until you have been through the system and see for yourself. Im going through this right now. Now they moved her to Florida intentionally knowing she turns 18 soon and doesnt want her to see me. Ask to see what the judge made from the lawyers. That was when I knew there was some major twisted alienation going on while I had been locked up! The stigma of being arrested for a crime I did not commit, being put on a sex offenders list as well as the possibility of losing my home, income, employment was unbearable. What is alarming to us is the level to which some people will go to ensure that the other parent will have absolutely no relationship with their children. Not my oldest dad my oldest childs dad had sexually abused her Wow dont use talk to text bc my comment is bad. Dealing with this kind of overt/covert abuse is like someone trying to touch a ghost. Where do you get a copy of court transcripts? I have been fighting custody for 10 months. And there has been no one to help me. I cannot get the judge to believe me that he is warping my childrens minds and abusing them meanwhile accusing me and calling dhs on me constantly him and his wife both. this is the nightmare worse than I know.. She honestly wants me dead so she can have the money she feels she should get va benefits even though we werent married at all during my tours and she is saying how there is drugs everywhere making up all this shit. At the age of 14 my daughter was working remotely for school (during covid pandemic) and told my mom to give her space and let her work at home (my place) in peace alone for her extra help 1:1 session with her teacher. All I could do is cry in front of these attorneys which made them sick. Its a Shame to see so much injustice, and kickback in this our court system. to his house to kill him with his family there and it was presented in court but no one came to care, focusing on a petty theft charge that mom had completed. Not only to me my innocent daughter. He filibustered the court so nothing would get resolved. Please make sure you clearly tell the judge you signed under duress. WRONG! Accountability will end verything. I have made such a stink about these lawyers, judges, commissioners, ProTems, Prosecuting attorneys, even court facilitators and other attorneys all would work together to deprive my rights so I do not have a voice. Judges are consistently ignoring the law that no change should occur in a parenting plan unless the other party can prove the current plan isnt working (best interest of the child). Not one charge was EVER allowed against him. Last 2 years I have not physically seen my only child, as my child has four other siblings with different fathers. We should form a group to fight back! How bout child screaming and tears bursting down cheeks with little hands desperately wiping tears away when told she had to return to other parent. he evenGave her my GARAGE CODE WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE and she would appaer at her convenience. And after this ex also claimed I was abusing our 10 year old son sexually and coerced him to lie to the judge. A cash cow for money hungry lawyers, that also lines the pockets of judges presiding over the cases. I am involved with a situation like what is explained in the article except 100 times worse than you can imagine one I am totally innocent of, and I do not know what to do about it, the system likes it this way its easier to deal with and hide bad decisions that the system makes it makes it fool proof for the courts to get their way and have no accountability whatsoever. SHE PAID FOR HIS HE NEVER EVEN KNEW WHAT THE ORDER SAID>>>> HE admitted that to me that she wrote it all and he just signed it SICK SELFISH WORLD we live in. I had my mental heath under control and well managed through medication and therapy but then corona had something to say about that. Bad thing is, its not the father of my child, but MY father and his wife. I should of seen the sign. The accuser should have to prove with physical evidence that what they SAY is true or be put in jail if they accuse without that evidence. The clerk? HE wasnt even POTTY TRAINED until nearly 6yrs old He used to CRY AND BEG TO BE WITH ME HE STILL DOES But when younger he would BEAT THIER DOG out of frustration. Every accusation against has of course been unsubstantiated because there is none of this happening. It is your main source for discussions and breaking news on all aspects of web hosting including managed hosting, dedicated servers and VPS hosting They cant do that in court .. OH YES THEY CAN AND DID. I was so sick and knew that the abuse I was going thru would be the end of my life. She feels we should accept the temporary orders and suggest my son come back home after the school year is over because the judge would not want to disrupt his current living situation. You cant wait for the state to do something for you, you have to do it yourself. To me theres nothing worse than making false allegations that can have permanent effects on someones life and well being. They took me to jail and left her with the mother who they just stated was wasted. as of now my son has no place to call home because he is being bounced around from house to house . Advice anyone? and every other kind of CHILD ABUSE on the BOOKS!!! If or when you find out they are narcissists its like being able to see and think clearly for the first time in a long time. Lets see how many people continue lying after they see that there are real consequences. The police recovered my daughter over state line at 4:30 in the morning outside a train station in the city. Read the book Divorce Poison it is also an exact replication of the above and describes in detail how things get to this point. After a battle that I had to hire 2 lawyers to fight because one gave me very bad advice I had to sell are home and farm just to fight for my son again from a controlling ex in court AGAIN, I lost custody of my own son because my own I lawyer said me theres nothing wrong with being poor!! In 1997 I was going through a Divorce. They get away with far too much. I am not a stereotypical father I do both mommy and daddy duties. She caught me at a vulnerable stage then went behind my bavk filing stipulations I never agreed to in 2019 which I have now found out about. Hes seen his daughter 5 times since 2016. Her father and immature gf would make fun of me, dress her up like the gf and post pictures on social media calling her mini-me with the gf as if my daughter had a new mom. She was witness to all of the abuse. This is happening to my daughter right now and we are trying to keep up there are so many things wrong with this and they are literally trying to make it impossible for her to see her two girls that are 2 and 3 need more help, Federal constitution reads that state court nor fed court has the right to get involved in family business unless it is in the best interest of the child. https://www.abc10.com/video/news/local/abc10-originals/the-problem-with-family-court/103-8130301, https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/acestudy/index.html. They even brought my husbands very angry ex wife into the custody battle. She was interrogated at school by 10 people, including police who questioned her until she said what they wanted her to say. Good luck to you all. Unfortunately when victims are prersecuted not only is it have a detrimental impimpact upon the mother but it has a unprecedented horrific effect upon the children and unfortunately dramatically prolongs the abuse that the male perpetrator subjects upon the children who he is allowed to see, once a serious allegation is made contact needs to be supervised with upmost concern for the children and to ensure that abuse that has been alleged does not continue, turning a blind eye to abuse is never the way forward, my advice to the victims is STAY STRONG AND NEVER GIVE UP. Theyve even called and tried to report my husband for stealing from his job, welfare fraud (when we were on state insurance for a year because of almost going bankrupt and homeless due to legal fees), etc.AGAIN EVERYTHING accused was unfounded and no cases ever opened. The judge said 45 days till we met again in court, she has now been in this other state going on a year and a half. I have spent all night despretly looking for help and answers to an upcoming case I am fighting with my exhusband once again for my custody of my now 11 year old son. And its been 5 years now and its still happening. Thank you very much for the article Im in a similar situation to the accusations I have multiple text messages from the mother of our child stating she sorry shes lied to the cops and to the judge for everything she said about me and for what she has done. Ive been falsely accused of multiple allegations ranging from child abuse to sexual abuse to verbally abusive in front of the child. I didnt do anything to deserve this. The lists do not show all contributions to every state ballot measure, or each independent expenditure committee formed to support or The underbanked represented 14% of U.S. households, or 18. please let me know if this ever came to light? apparently I am too psychologically damaged to maintain a steady job at this time (which doesnt look good upon me) however when It comes to my children, well as I said they were my life. Its been 8 weeks and I havent seen or spoken to my daughter. Im new to all this please help me understand why false allegations make someone lose a child ex 13 years in my case all false, Did you have a laywer to try and show evidence, these stories are so shocking, going thru now,dont know what to expect but reading this not coffident,can u email me please. I said obviously not, he said I cant tell you anything without your lawyer present but have a seat back on the couch and we will obtain a warrant like you requested. Im terminating grandma guardianship and she lied last time we went to court. Theyve kept my children from me wherever its suited them and have made my life hell. Veronica, Im going to guess that if something was on your daughters phone, isnt that the proof that they need? Next to it I found 2 folders that had case evaluations conducted on her in what appears to be a college course. They just used the pandemic to keep them from me for the past three months because my daughter has asthma. I was promoted fastly and within 2 years was sgt so while deployed and I was responsible for my 5 man team. I received what I perceived to be a death threat against one of our children and despite awareness that this threat might be manufactured I called him and the police. I have three grandchildren that are going through this kind of stuff right now, they are all siblings the oldest has a different dad from the other two and my daughter is going through a divorce, the man she is divorcing is tell the children all kinds of bad things about their mom to the kids and it is destroying the relationship between the kids and their mom, the oldest childs dad is always telling bad things to the child and even calling police and DCS on the mom, these kids are going through hell and I do not know what I can do about it! You will be broke, tired, exhausted. As you can imagine, my daughter is still claiming innocence to her lawyer and she tells me absolutely less than nothing. Read to her every night, Skin to skin ever morning, countless of hours of research to ensure I could be the best father possible. Im devastated without my precious children. Yet I have written proof in my daughters handwriting of how she is treated and feels at his house. I too wish to hear more about how the accused parent can hold the other parent accountable for the false allegations and all the damage caused. He is now sitting jail waiting extradition there is no way he can afford a lawyer or the bond amount set So he will wait in jail he has not yet waived extradition because his final divorce court date is coming up. Trained to lie. Jenna, I just read your post and its been a couple years and I hope you are with your baby now! It is a business and in Canton, Massachusetts and Salem,Massachusetts, 2 judges have ruined more women and children for their profit. They did what they were told. She continually lies to the case worker and it is just ok. What can we do??? Even trips back home 1500 miles away just to see my side of family every year.. Everything that I could give them to have a very good life. Please contact me. On the following monday she filed an injunction against me for herself and my daughter. I still never put 2 and 2 together. He is not safe and deserves better. They also made a back-up copy of the cloud. I will this time not be bringing a lawyer since the lawyer did absolutely nothing to protect me from this I had to fire her because she did no work on my case at all. How many parents are losing custody of their children, losing decision-making abilities, losing the right to access records based on fabrications? Thank you . Im waiting on the Lord to move things for me since Im up against a corrupt system. In court she said she would rather have the money then the kids haave a relationship with me, i am in over 5 years hug custody battle 42,000. },{ I went thru something similar but in the end karma came around and justice was served but it never would have been if left up to the courts. after a retired judge left the bench or was put there due to lack of knowledge of those voters who Voted them in Its time to change a system that doesnt work Stand for something or dont stand for anything.. Family are being torn apart every single day and we have to Stop this from ruining the lives of many well-deserving children. Keep taking pictures!!! He had got rid of all my friends and pushed away my family. My daughter told 3 counselors the truth but they are only willing to listen to the 1 counselor her dad takes her to which he threatens my daughter before every sessions. Its the liars, the cheaters, the manipulators, the heartless people who only think of themselves and want to screw the others and put them through hell that file first and the court believes everything they say. Courts proceeded anyways made her take her baby back in 2016. I texted him not her and told the officer If she was so upset why would he show her Im calling and instilling fear in her? CSO.. my daughter raised her daughter for first almost three years of life.Father only came into picture when child support order was sent to him. I woke up in the middle of the nights feeding, changing her. I literally fear what is coming next. They kept me for a few hours and then let me go bc they said I was in no way shape or form a threat to myself. Wrong is wrong and in this particular case, not one person was right on rulings or decision making for the health and well being of me and/or my daughter. Keeping the money in house. lets get honest here. My moving my sons schools without consent from him was the ONLY thing the judge asked me about during the hearing and apparently her reason for taking my son from me. In Loco Parentis was filed under Divorce case, which was dismissed after three months, and guardianship was never assigned its own case #. Kept a stable job since I was 16. At a court session he stood beside judge and they both laughed at me. Dyfs is involved doing an investigation. She then apologized to me and told me that she only did it because she thought she would be able to have some more visitation with her father. Please do some research and educate yourself you are not dealing with karan alia nation you are dealing with coercive control. Im very emotional. I dont gamble with the lives of the girls. In addition if we were both working nights the Child Rep recommended my mother care for the children since she lived with us while masked since the children were born and she continued to reside with me after the divorce. Unsubstantiated. If you message me. The judge has entered as evidence and yet he had granted every motion they have entered. Stand up for our childrens for our family. two days laterHe was given 100% custody him the entire household and its possessions by the court. This is about money. Mother even was supposed to uphold mandatory phone calls 3 times a week and not 1 in 3 years but all of a sudden we now have to pay for supervised calls ? I hold on for those moments.. one to the next. Having those will let you know exactly what was said by your son. She lied and made up all kinds of crap to make me look like the monster parent after I asked her to help me with my daughter while i figured out what I was going to do getting out of a DV relationship. My ex was a convicted felon, had his drivers license suspended, was the only one working at the time. My son was in state foster care during the alleged timeframe I provided ALL case numbers done a sworn statement. Our legal system is convoluted and very unfair! I am a pro se plantiff and recently lost my child custody case. They destroy men, women, and children in the quest for dollars. How? Due to mothers past substance abuse and recently acquired mental illness father got custody and mother got supervised visitation. Which kids are never a game or possession. Father who was in my house just the night before and his wife, turned on me. which now calls me by my name. I have lost everything to me in this world my son. Happiness is a choice and why choose anything but!? Why?? So she took my daughters dads side all for a false allegation! "acceptedAnswer": { how did u get your child back after she was adopted? I am not experiencing the same thing. I had cps case didnt have a lawyer was not allow to say anything the still had all the hearing never got papers after court the dismissal date was on 24 Aug. In a world that money is a big motivator and more time with one parent is more money. Involvement of all or some of these experts and agencies sometimes creates even bigger issues and often times further variables with which to deal all in a case where the allegations are false. My wife read it to me. She is also an ex girlfriend of my ex husbands bow girlfriends son they started talking and she became friends with my ex husband they made up a story about my fiance saying g he sexuallt abused her and physically abuse me, her and the other 5 children we have. He has family connections and money, and everything she has tried blows back in her face. I am still searching for legal help If you are able to do a consultation I would appreciate that If you are un available perhaps you know of where I might find the appropriate legal representation? I had to get a ride to the food shelf. Find all the latest real-time sports coverage, live reports, analysis and comment on Telegraph Sport. She takes them to school and picks them up. Cause even if you dont win. All of which he had zero proof and I had proof of just the opposite. Our family court makes sure nothing is resolved as long as possible because all the lawyers have to make money. In all honesty I feel that she should be the one to pay an attorney from all the stress and violations shes done. Since I have been restrained my wife has cancelled auto insurance, made huge changes to health insurance, been involved in usurping a $9,000 tax return, enrolled one of our children in psycho therapy, sent fraudulent information to Child Support, and attempted to extort money in exchange for being allowed to take my daughters to a Father-Daughter dance. I also saw that the allegations were made by none other than my daughter. Ex wifes boyfriend was sexually abusing my daughter in there home and is the Sr. Vice President Financial Adviser for Merrill Lynch/ Bank of AmericaHe has countless financial relationships within the courts. And shes doing it again. Anyways Im off subject and rambling. Than you for a very informative and thought provoking article. The association was foreclosing on us. Now 9 years later my kids come to my house in the summer and tell me shes telling them all these lies. My daughter cant afford much So I have made everyone of their Christmas super special for them. Its not easy. Has anyone ever successfully done this? I dont even know where to start when It comes to my soon to be exwife and her false accusations. RED LIGHT CAMERAS. And after week two there has been absolutely noone telling me what I need to do to prove my self to be the loving caring mother I have always beenclasses parenting classes nothing. The family support judge refused to do a damn thing. And you know he probably could knowing what he was able to do before. 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She never addressed the underlying mental health issue as he admitted to being suicidal and never did answer being homicidal in open court that day hmmm. Did yall see? I would ask to speak and be told I would get my turn. I later found out that the law was no longer based on % based on the number of children and income. Its been 4 MONTHS and 2 days since Ive seen my daughter, whom I had a very close bond with. Punishments for non-compliance of various demands made out of narcopathic control based abuse, terms from psych facility after familicide threats, continuously escalating until for the fifth time hes kidnapped my son denying any access the last time filing documents to self protect against felony arrest claiming abuse by myself that was already determined to be false ten days prior by APS, when determined him to be a repeated false reporter of abuse. I am glad i will doe soon so i no longer have to see the awful heartbreak and destruction of lives. News, fixtures, scores and video. ", In total.. six months at the age of 42 years old!! They will not admit their mistakes. This is the first time in over 20 years Ive ever had any kind of altercation with their godmother. My daughter is 18 months old i have never had a relationship with her father we have never been married pretty much 1 nite stand he does pay child support and he put his name on birth certificate after he had d and a done.He seen her 1 time when she was 8 weeks old now he wants full custody she has always been with me. This whole thing is killing me I havent seen him in11 days and Ive lost 18 lbs in That time. Any questions I ask her about.. 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